FIND LOVE ON PURPOSE

A Step-by-Step Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve

Stop Leaving the Most Important Relationship of Your Life to Chance.

Healthy relationships are not built by luck. They are built by purpose.

Whether you are single, dating, engaged, married, or rebuilding after disappointment, Find Love on Purpose

gives you a practical roadmap to build healthier, wiser, and more fulfilling relationships—starting with the relationship you have with yourself.

What If Love Isn't Something You Find...

What if it's something you intentionally create?

Millions of people dream of lasting love.

Yet many still struggle with questions like:

• Why do I keep attracting the wrong people?
• How do I know if someone is truly right for me?
• Why do promising relationships break down?
• How can I build trust that lasts?
• How do I communicate without constant conflict?
• Is it possible to love again after heartbreak?
• Can I prepare for a healthy relationship before I even meet the right person?

If you've asked yourself any of these questions, you're not alone.

The good news is that healthy relationships are not reserved for the lucky few.

They are built on principles that anyone can learn.

That is exactly what this book will teach you.

Introducing...

Find Love on Purpose

A Practical Guide to Building the Relationship You Deserve

This is not another book filled with clichés or unrealistic fairy tales.

It is a practical, thoughtful, and encouraging guide that combines timeless principles, reflective exercises, coaching tools,

and real-life examples to help you become the kind of person who can build lasting love.

Instead of telling you to simply "follow your heart," this book teaches you how to develop the wisdom, emotional maturity,

and intentional habits that healthy relationships require.

Inside This Book, You'll Discover How To...

✓ Understand what healthy love really looks like.

✓ Become the right person before searching for the right person.

✓ Build confidence without depending on someone else's approval.

✓ Recognize red flags before they become regrets.

✓ Identify green flags that indicate emotional maturity.

✓ Develop healthy communication habits.

✓ Resolve conflict with respect and wisdom.

✓ Build and protect trust over time.

✓ Heal from disappointment without losing hope.

✓ Create a relationship vision based on your values.

✓ Build a relationship that grows stronger through every season of life.

✓ Continue growing whether you are single or in a relationship.

This Book Is For You If...

You're Single...

...and you want to prepare intentionally instead of waiting passively.

You're Dating...

...and you want confidence that you're making wise decisions.

You're Engaged...

...and you want to build a strong foundation before marriage.

You're Married...

...and you want to strengthen trust, communication, and connection.

You're Starting Again...

...after heartbreak, divorce, or loss, and you want hope for the future.

No matter where you are today, this book meets you there—and helps you move forward.

Why This Book Is Different

Many relationship books focus almost entirely on finding the right partner.

This one begins somewhere even more important:

Becoming the right partner.

Because healthy relationships don't happen by accident.

They are built by emotionally healthy people making intentional choices every day.

You'll find practical worksheets, self-assessments, reflection exercises, coaching questions, case studies,

and action plans that help you apply each lesson—not just read about it.

What You'll Learn

Chapter 1

Understanding Healthy Love

Learn the difference between attraction, infatuation, and genuine love.

Chapter 2

Knowing Yourself First

Develop self-awareness, emotional maturity, and clarity about your values.

Chapter 3

Preparing for the Right Relationship

Discover how intentional preparation shapes healthier outcomes.

Chapter 4

Choosing Wisely

Learn how to recognize compatibility, character, and long-term potential.

Chapter 5

Communication That Builds Connection

Master the skills that strengthen understanding and reduce unnecessary conflict.

Chapter 6

Building and Protecting Trust

Understand how trust grows, how it is damaged, and how it can be rebuilt.

Chapter 7

Recognising Healthy and Unhealthy Patterns

Identify red flags, green flags, boundaries, and relationship habits that matter.

Chapter 8

Growing Together Through Every Season

Learn how to sustain love through change, challenge, and shared purpose.

Chapter 9

Hope, Healing, and New Beginnings

Build resilience, embrace personal growth, and create a life worth loving—whatever season you're in.

More Than a Book

This isn't simply information.

It is a personal development journey.

Each chapter includes:

• Reflection questions
• Practical exercises
• Coaching insights
• Action plans
• Accountability checklists
• Real-life examples
• Journaling prompts

By the end of the book, you'll have created your own relationship vision, mission statement, and lifelong growth plan.

About the Author

Eben O. Lajorin is a leadership development professional, executive coach, and author with extensive experience helping

individuals and organizations grow through intentional leadership, emotional intelligence, and purposeful development.

Drawing on years of coaching, leadership experience, and a passion for helping people thrive, he believes that the

principles that build exceptional leaders are often the same principles that build exceptional relationships: trust,

integrity, communication, self-awareness, accountability, and purpose.

Through Find Love on Purpose, he brings these principles together in a practical guide designed to help

readers build stronger relationships and more meaningful lives.

Imagine One Year From Today

Imagine waking up with greater clarity.

Greater confidence.

Healthier boundaries.

Better communication.

Deeper self-awareness.

Stronger relationships.

Imagine making relationship decisions from wisdom rather than fear.

Imagine approaching love with purpose instead of uncertainty.

That future begins with the decisions you make today.

What Readers Will Gain

After reading this book, you will have:

• A clear relationship vision.
• Practical communication tools.
• Greater emotional intelligence.
• Stronger decision-making skills.
• Confidence to recognize healthy relationships.
• A plan for building lasting trust.
• Strategies for navigating conflict.
• A renewed sense of hope and purpose.

Most importantly, you'll be equipped to build relationships that reflect your values rather than your fears.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this book only for people who are dating?

No. The principles apply whether you're single, dating, engaged, married, or rebuilding after a relationship has ended.

Is this book based on research or personal opinion?

The book draws on established insights from psychology, emotional intelligence, leadership, communication, and personal development, combined with practical coaching experience and reflective exercises.

Is it practical?

Yes. Every chapter includes tools you can apply immediately.

Can couples read it together?

Absolutely. Many exercises and discussion questions are ideal for couples, while others support individual reflection and growth.

Ready to Build the Relationship You Deserve?

Love is one of the most important investments you'll ever make.

Don't leave it to chance.

Take the first step toward healthier relationships, wiser decisions, and a more intentional future.

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Order now and start building the relationship you deserve—on purpose.

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